To really enjoy the story read the Part 1 first
This couldn’t
work out because Yusuf was on a government scholarship and was ready to return
to his country as soon as he finished his studies. On my part, I was ready to
follow him anywhere he went, even to the ends of the earth.
When it became obvious to my parents that
I was going with Yusuf, come what may; they accepted the inevitable.
We got married in my neighbourhood church
in 1988, and less than a year later returned to Nigeria.
Around the same time, I was getting involved
with Yusuf, Maria was also falling in love. Maria’s beau was a young and
handsome civil engineer called Giorgio. Giorgio worked in his uncle’s
construction firm. He was a nice, easy-go-lucky chap with curly red hair,
something very unusual in an Italian. Maria and Giorgio had a fairy tale
romance and got married around 1989, just as I was leaving for Nigeria with
Yusuf.
In Nigeria, the federal government took
up Yusuf’s employment and, his rise within the bureaucracy was very rapid. By
1992, we moved from Maiduguri in northeastern Nigeria to Abuja the country’s
capital. All this time, I was in constant communication with all my family and
friends in Italy. This was before the internet, so all communication was by
telephone and snail-mail. Maria and I were still very close and, the distance
didn’t change anything.
Little did I know then that my seeming act of benevolence would be the disastrous seed that would destroy a close, loving, and kind family.
By 1995, we were both mothers of three
daughters each. Maria’s husband was now a partner in his uncle’s construction
business, while my Yusuf was not doing badly. The two families were progressing
nicely and everybody was happy.
After the transfer of power to civil rule
in 1999, my husband found himself in a position where he could exert
considerable influence on the nation’s policymakers. With this in mind, we
started thinking of expanding our fortunes.
In
Nigeria, the government is the biggest customer of any good or service, and the
best goods or services to sell to the government are either related to oil or
infrastructure. Nigeria is an infrastructure poor country, and as strange as
this may sound given the country’s economic resources; the need for construction
work was enormous. With this in mind, I discussed the idea of inviting Giorgio
to Nigeria with Yusuf. My husband thought this was a good idea, and told me to
discuss it with Maria. I agreed to do this. I called and discussed my thoughts with her,
she liked it and, promised to discuss the issue with her husband.
Maria called back a week later. She said that
she had spoken to her husband about our discussion, and he liked the idea. The
plan was that they will come to Nigeria, make their fortune in 10 years, and
retire rich in Italy.
I was thrilled to hear this. Imagined all
the fun that Maria and I would be having within the high-octane expatriate
community in Abuja. Little did I know then that my seeming act of benevolence
would be the disastrous seed that would destroy a close, loving, and kind
family.
This amazing story is to be concluded in Parts 3-4. Watch out!!!
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